When you adopt a new feline, you probably want to make him or her a member of your family as soon as possible. But remember that it takes time to establish trust. Even cats that are affectionate upon the first meeting may still be skittish once you actually get home.

There's no telling how soon your feline will adapt. Sometimes, your new cat will settle in quickly. However, sometimes you will find that your cat is unwilling to be sociable and prefers hiding under the bed to joining in household activities. Normally, a cat will choose one person in the home that he bonds with. You'll know when a cat wants to bond with you, as he will hop on your lap seeking attention or snuggle up to you at night when you are sleeping. Although many experts have tried to figure it out, no one really knows why cats choose a particular person whom they will bond with. It could be the individual's manners, voice, or simply how that person treats the cat. Perhaps the individual just has the right personality for bringing out the best in that specific cat.

If your cat runs every time you enter the room, do not think that it means that she hates you! There are many possible explanations for this behavior. It could be that her previous owners were abusive or neglectful, or she could simply be stressed from being in a crowded shelter. Plus, she now has new territories, household routines, and people to get used to. Moving is one of the most stressful experiences for a human, just imagine what it must be for a cat that has had no preparation for the event! So allow the cat to hide away if she wishes. Simply make sure that food, plenty of fresh water, and a litter box are readily available to meet the cat's needs.

There's nothing wrong with trying to encourage your new friend into exploration and bonding, but do not try to force affection on or from your cat. A small treat or cat toy might make him curious enough to come explore. When your cat does appear, keep your voice gentle and refrain from making sudden loud noises. This might startle him back into hiding. Additionally, allowing him to sniff your fingers can be a good first step towards forming a bond. Sometimes the best way to make a new cat comfortable is by pretending to ignore him. When you stare at him and make too much of a fuss over his presence, he might feel overwhelmed. If you pretend not to notice him, he might feel secure enough to actually approach you. This is not unusual feline behavior; sometimes they'll even end up on your lap. But if your cat does not show curiosity, that's ok too. Remain patient, and he'll come to trust you soon enough.

If you have children, it's likely that they will be disappointed that their new friend doesn't want to play. However, it is important that you caution them to not try to pick up the cat before she trusts you. Explain to them that their new friend is a bit shy and scared, and therefore needs time to get comfortable with you. And some cats never enjoy being picked up, so watch for signs that your cat wants to be left alone. If your cat is so scared that she shows signs of aggression, such as a hissing, flattened ears, or even a swiping paw, it's a good idea to step back. She mostly likely doesn't mean any harm; she just doesn't want you to come too close. Therefore, it is advisable to monitor the interaction of your cat with your child just to make sure neither comes to harm.

It can take a few weeks for a cat to get used to his new home. And even after that, the road to true trust can be a lengthy one, but the bond between you is one that will develop and strengthen over the years. Even though there are a lot of theories and speculation out there, no one really knows why cats bond with humans. There's little to no proof available as well, other than cats and their natural instinct for physical survival. Those who own cats know that cats crave attention, simply to make them feel needed. They love to be pampered by their owners, and will shower you with attention and affection if you just give them the chance. Patience truly is the key. It will be worth it in the end, and before you know it, you'll have a loving friend to build many good memories with.

One of the most popular resolutions at New Years is to lose weight. But, have you ever considered that your pet might be the one who needs to drop a few pounds? People may not be aware of this, but obesity is one of the greatest health problems pets face these days.

America's portly pets are tipping the scales at an all-time high. As many as 40 percent of American household pets are obese or overweight -- that's 48 million cats and dogs -- yet few pet owners recognize the seriousness of the condition.
We love our pets, but sometimes that love can lead pet owners to pamper their pets just a little too much when it comes to food and treats. It can be hard to say no and not give them special treats when it results in getting the loving look that only they can give. But this over indulgence has the same effects on our pets as it does on us when we over eat or snack a little too often. And if you add in not getting enough exercise, then the problem is compounded.

Like humans, pets develop certain diseases too when they are overweight. Problems that can develop from obesity include arthritis, diabetes, skin problems, heat intolerance, respiratory problems, heart disease, gastrointestinal problems such as pancreatitis, and liver problems. These health problems can lead to serious complications and are indeed life threatening.

Thus, in order to stay healthy, pets depend on their owners to combat these problems. One of the best means to solving weight problems is a strict exercise schedule. So, it is a must that owners should create a healthy exercise schedule for their dogs. You should develop a regular exercise routine that includes a daily walks, playtime, or other activities such as hiking or running along a bicycle while on a leash. The best thing about this program is that not only the dogs get the chance to exercise but their owners do too. Exercise is not only important to your pet's physical health, but mental health as well. If pets do not get appropriate amounts of exercise, then they are not happy.

Next is to create a healthy diet for your pet. Nutritionally balanced meals are extremely important so that your pet obtains the necessary nutrients they need in order to stay healthy. This should include the right combination of fiber, meat, vegetables, vitamins, and minerals. Just keep in mind that when increasing your pets fiber intake that plenty of water is provided to prevent constipation.

If you think your pet may be lugging around some excess pounds, it is important to speak with your veterinarian before radically changing their diet or exercise plan. Your vet can advise you on how you can get your pet back into optimum shape should he weigh in a bit too much. In this way, only the proper methods of dieting will be employed. Keeping your pet at an ideal weight will make him happier and healthier member of your family for years to come.